So last night me and my partner had a few drinks all was fine. Told him to be careful of the bottle as it will break, he never listened and kicked the bottle over by accident and it smashed. I cleaned it up but the mood had gone by then and I just wanted to go to bed. So we're in bed and I can feel him touching me and I told him no not tonight. I was tired and honestly just wasn't in the mood no more and wanted to go to sleep. He then told me "you've fucked me off i dont want to be near you tomorrow". All because I said no. Now its shit enough in itself to be made to feel like an object but around this time 5 years ago I was raped and he knows this. Weve spoken today and hes basically told me I'm wrong and hes done nothing wrong and usually we have sex. I told him he was acting disgustingly to then be asked why would i want to be with someone who's disgusting. Am I over reacting? I feel just like I did 5 years ago. Like i have no choice and must be obliged to sleep with him even of I dont want to.