God this is going to sound ridiculous for a woman in my 40s but here goes.
I live in a small town. Been happily single a few years now. Got great friends and we go out locally every weekend.
Several months ago a guy started coming into our local most weekends. He gradually became friends with us and chatting to us. He’s separated with a young child. Lives and works away from our town but was home each weekend as one of his parents lives here. Saw his child during the week etc but he wanted more time with them.
We got quite close really. We swapped numbers but haven’t communicated by phone or text. We did kiss one night which was nice.
So he hasn’t been around for a few weeks. I actually miss seeing him. I love my single life and wouldn’t give it up lightly but this is the first guy who has triggered any romantic interest in me for years!!
I have his number and I’m tempted to send him a text. I want to know if he’s likely to be coming back, has he got back with his ex? Does he now have his child at weekends? He’s just disappeared. I think about him a lot. If that’s the end of his visits I’d like to know so I stop looking out for him and put him out of my head. I’m also mindful that I’ve only ever seen him when I’m in drink which isn’t ideal and I’m conscious he might just think I’m an idiot! I’m not, I have a very stressful job and tend to just let my hair down at weekends.
WWYD? Send him a friendly text or just leave it and assume his life has moved on now? 