I need help ! Basic history is
Been with hubs for 20years, worked 4 days a week since kids babies.
Never had a joint bank acct access to his money ( he's wealthy with a v good company which he owns).
Now kids are 8 and 12 one dyslexic at a really academic school ( which he wants to keep her in ) which means she needs extra help and time.
I have given up 2 days a week work as we agreed it was better for the family, earn small amount now , do everything at home, all the running around . He gives me nothing ...... I can't get any money if I run out as I have no joint acct and no access to anything. He's a top earner ( kids at private school) with the type of business that he's around a lot not doing that much sometimes. I have to ask consistently for food money or clothes money and after a few years of this I'm starting to feel so controlled and sad. It makes me feel like I'm constantly begging for money. Eve time I ask he makes a face like it's so painful. He's not short ... will tell me that I can't get a new too for the kids then book a holiday for 7,000 next day ....
it's driving me insane, I'm sad, anxious and my 12 yr old is picking up on it at home asking me why I have no money and daddy does.
Help ... am I being a spoilt brat or is this some sort of control on his part ?