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Dp and wart??!!!

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Imadivvycow · 09/09/2019 12:10

He deffo has a genital wart it's so obvious, yet neither of us have bought it up , I just find the whole hpv/,herpes virus confusing as it's one that lays dormant for so long. I figured it's just one of those things , I'm now panicking as I've been sleeping with him I'm going to catch them aren't I 😭 I thought I'd be safe as he doesn't seem concerned , I need to bring it up with him don't I, I'm so stupid but figured he would be dealing with his health side of things , I'm panicking now and don't know how to broach it with him , don't just want to blurt it out and upset him ...

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Redruby25 · 10/09/2019 12:59

Not being funny, but a full screen a month after you have started sleeping together is a bit late. And if you have only had the screening, and your partner hasn't, then it kind of defeats the object, doesn't it?!
Plus it can take time for some things to show up, so although a month is enough time for some STD's it isn't for all. Has it always been there since you have been sexually active? You do need to mention it, why should it upset him? If you aren't sure ask him if he has always had it, if not then say what needs to be said. It is necessary for them to see it at a clinic etc, as that is the time they can also get a better idea of what is going on.

Imadivvycow · 10/09/2019 14:34

Yes I'm aware of that so back off to the clinic i go at the earliest convinence to myself

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