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Partner is snooping on friends FB

61 replies

RachT85 · 06/09/2019 17:37

I snooped on my long term partners phone.......
I've found things before, things that we have caused us to fight but not really bad fights, It was just mild porn or page 3 girls that kind of stuff. Anyway I haven't looked on his phone for a while, But last week I couldn't help myself, I had a feeling and I'm too nosy. As the subject states he's been looking at a close friend, Almost daily. Scanning through her photos, it's not just one or two photos, it's 10+ photos everytime, Almost everyday. I feel sick about it, He hasn't looked on other girls profiles, just hers........Also about 2 years ago I found a photo of my friend on his phone, he'd taken the photo from my phone so I called him out on it and he said he was just curious and it almost broke us. And now I'm so confused and lost.....

OP posts:
Sadiesnakes · 07/09/2019 23:04

"dont read anyones diary" what shit

So u spend your life being cheated on and taken for a mug but hey ho, as long as you dont know about it

What utter utter crap

Yep @Karkasaurus, you are wrong.

Ringdonna · 08/09/2019 03:47

Sounds like he wants to shag her

Dieu · 08/09/2019 03:53

If this friend gave him the green light, he'd be like a rat up a drainpipe.
The posters who think he's done nothing wrong are clearly deluded. Sorry OP Thanks

DBML · 08/09/2019 10:18

He fancies her more than he loves you...or he would have stopped. Sorry op.

RachT85 · 08/09/2019 12:22

Thank you all for replying, I'm so confused about it, talking to strangers is kind of helping deal 🙂

OP posts:
busybarbara · 08/09/2019 20:35

"dont read anyones diary" what shit

I wish I knew which people in real life felt like this so I would know not to trust them.

ErickBroch · 08/09/2019 22:52

This is not normal behaviour! At all! Dump him

Karkasaurus · 09/09/2019 15:05

Say what you like, but not giving your partner their privacy is abusive.

MsDogLady · 09/09/2019 15:55

Rach, what are you confused about? Two years ago your relationship almost ended over your partner’s obsession with your close friend. He learned/changed nothing, and has been obsessing and lusting over her photos daily. You both see her often and even double date. You can be sure that he is fantasizing about her both in and out of her presence.

Why are you still with this man who is obsessed with your friend?

Secondsight · 09/09/2019 20:27

Does your friend have a DP I'd be inclined to tell him!

oabiti · 10/09/2019 01:22

Say what you like, but not giving your partner their privacy is abusive.

Point made. The OP is 'abusive'. Case closed.

Karkasaurus, now we concentrate on what the OP should do about her partner?

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