packing dh stuff up and putting it in garden while he is at work as he has started getting violent

[lillaura123]

am i doing the right thing - he wont leave when i ask him too

lil - you are doing well, I woud make it clear to him that he cannot do that again adn you will not be letting him in for a wash.

just caught this, glad it went better than anticipated, keep your wits about you, if he's unpredictable, he may be simmering now..i sincerily hope not, but dont let your guard down chick.

just read your last msg, i wouldnt let him in again, hes is too unpredictable..please be alert.

oh i am - he said to the kids he would see them later - but what he doesnt realise is im gona be toooooo busy decorating the kitchen , listening to my kind of music loudly and making a fresh new start for me and kids to notice that he will be at the front door ( btw im painting kitchen pale pink lol) a girly colour for an independnt woman!!!

well done, i remember the sense of relief when i got rid of xp. life just felt so much better and i really did love being a single parent

..glad you're looking forward, but maybe there are some people you need to speak to first?..like some one said earlier a womans help line, ring local police station to actually 'log' that you have done this and are concerned of his temper, at least they will know what they are coming to if you do need to ring..also try and keep friends family round you for little while.x

i know what you mean - i feel relieved already , im gonna gut the house and have it how i want it - and i will be able to go out with kids and come bk when i want to - get rid off all the crap food that he ate and refill cupboards with what he called "my weird foods"and im gonna listen to the music that i like and he hates lol

respect to you for handling this so well and with such dignity.

really glad nothing kicked off tho.

looked at your profile and you are indeed very pretty.

i used to live nearby to you - next time i'm up that way we should have a coffee!

i've been dreading moving (again!) but am now getting very impatient to get back into my own home and start decorating and making a lovely stable space for me and my dd.

good luck, crank up the stereo, slap on that paint and scoff something weird!

Hi I'm local to you too.
Just a cautionary note... I don't think it's such a great idea to have those pics on your profile,especially in the light of this thread.
For all you know many people who know you, your kids and your partner are following this thread.
Bicester is a small place!!!!
keep safe.

lol makes no odds to me hun in the long run i havnt done anything wrong but thanks for concern

How are things going, lillaura?

Well done, lillaura, you have been very strong. Please keep posting so we know how you are getting on