7 years ago my husband lost 10st and quite rightly it changed his life and I was so proud of him. I had never had any cause to mistrust him but one night I was using the laptop and he hadn't logged out of his Facebook. I didn't look at it but while I was on there a notification popped up, it was from a women I didn't know she said she'd loved meeting him (at a stag do he'd gone to) and she was sorry she had stopped him kissing her, but that next time they met up she would give him more than a kiss!! I felt sick!! I looked at the other messages he had and 3 were from other women, one he'd met at a festival he'd been to, one he worked with and one it seemed he was meeting when he was on a night shift! I felt so shocked that I couldn't even say anything to him. Over the next few weeks the messages got more explicit and he was making arrangements to meet them. I had it out with him and he broke down saying how sorry he was, he promised he had never met up with any of these women, it was just that after he had lost weight he suddenly started getting female attention and it had just gone to far. While this was going on our Son was diagnosed with Autism and so I buried it all, forgave him and we moved on. A few years later I started feeling uneasy again and confronted him, he had changed jobs and he said that one of the girls had taken a liking to him and had tried to kiss him when he'd dropped her home one night. He said he didn't kiss her back and he had told her he wouldn't take her home anymore or spend anytime alone with her. Again I took this at face value and we carried on. He has always been and still is very loving and romantic, he rings me whenever he gets a break at work and he's always texting me etc, but then about a month ago he got a new phone and instead of using the password he had on his old phone he has set it up so he has to use a fingerprint to open it. He has started taking his phone everywhere with him again and he is always on it. The other day I tried to log in to his Facebook at home but he has changed his password. An hour or so later he came home looking very pale he said that a funny thing had happened he had received an email saying someone had logged into his FB account and he had to change his password. He seemed terrified that I might have looked at his FB. He spent the next few days being overly nice to me buying me flowers, then over the weekend he left his phone unlocked on the table at a family party and I took the chance to have a quick look, there were some messages on WhatsApp I could only look quickly all earlier messages were deleted but he had told her he loved her lots and he missed her!! I don't know when I'll ever get a chance to look at his phone again but its driving me insane 😥