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would you say this is emotional abuse or just a typical man as he says he is ? Can be loving too

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Northorder · 28/07/2019 16:28

Threatens to destroy me /annihilate me if we split up and I can take the kids if we have a difference of opinion. Screams and shouts at me with a menancig f face in front of the kids. Does the same to the kids bear in mind one is 20 months and 3 and calls them wankers and faggots if they cry. They both don't know whether they were coming or going but he also plays with them and is loving.Grabs my eldest by collar and made her cry she was so scared. I told him enough is enough and he says all men are like this. Called me namest, threw my stuff on floor in front of kids and told me to leave asap. His house as I left mine to be with him and had a tenancy. Had to go to ab&b . Burnt myself with hit oil one day cooking and asked for some cream but said tell someone who fucking cares and had to get a taxi by myself. I said to him that's wrong and he said well I don't hit you but has come up to my face and lunches his bag and says I know what you want whilst looking at me punching his punch bag.

Calls me all sorts of names. Other wise always says he is very faithful and he never out at night and alwys wanted to be with me. Wanted sex every night nearly and often stuff I didn't want.kooks at himself in the mirror flexing his muscles and saying I am with the best lol. Wouldsay lovely stuff. Charming to all the neighbours and everyone.
More to story but can't say but you get the gist.

OP posts:
Northorder · 31/07/2019 18:00

He has PR but not married.

OP posts:
Isatis · 01/08/2019 09:53

Have you talked to Social Services about the situation with your son? Surely there must be massive doubts about whether he can look after him, let alone keep him safe.

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