X and Ow in Singapore - emotional abuse?

[greenberet]

Today would have been my 25 wedding anniversary - guess where we went on honeymoon.

Coincidence? I doubt it - I guess this is meant to be a kick in the guts - but I have had so many that this is just another to add to the list. Really I just find this bloody weird!

I have had a lovely day in the garden with some gin and passion fruit lollies - the best things in life are free!

I’m very very confused.

I used “” as quotation marks because that’s how you referred to ur cancer.

There’s nothing malicious intended at all and sorry if anyone perceived it like that.

I was simply addressing the idea that ex of several years was still fixated on ex wife. That is all.

Hi GreenBeret. I remember one of your earlier threads and posted on it under a different username. Your XH and my XH sound very similar.

I had always wanted to go to a black tie event with my husband, but we never did. Within a few months of leaving me & taking up with another woman, he'd taken her to one. He then tried to give me one of the left-over bottles of wine from this event, and was surprised when I told him exactly what he could do with said wine.

He was incapable of booking a holiday when we were married, but miraculously discovered that he was able to do so after leaving me.

He always protested that he hated the heat, so we holidayed in cold places. I think I've visited every single Scandinavian country. Since divorcing me, he's been to Sicily, the south of France and on a Caribbean cruise.

It was really hard to see him treating the new woman with more care and respect than he'd treated me, but luckily DC are grown up now and I no longer need to have any contact with him. I haven't spoken to him, or contacted him in any way for over a year and that suits me just fine.

You see, I'm better off without him. Absolutely no question.

To give you another perspective, if dp and I were planning a holiday and he said we couldn't go to a particular destination at a particular time because his ex wouldn't like it I'd be livid. Her feelings rightly come before yours to him now.

I’ve had a lovely few days away - thanks to those that continue to support me

So are some of you - ElspethFlashman - trying to tell me he’s just going to rock up in Singapore having forgotten that he went there on his honeymoon and that he happens to be there on a wedding anniversary - yeah right !

Funny that wedding anniversary is 2 days after his mums birthday - do you think he may have forgotten this too - or that his mum died on 16 July and that he had to abandon a holiday and wedding Ann to get back to England -

Consider he can remember shit from years ago - I doubt this very much but as you all seem to “know” him better than I do - sorry did - it must be so!

I doubt OW - sorry partner - gives a shit - she will be relishing in all the luxury - something that her previous DH was unable to provide!