So they have resumed their Emotional Affair.
You are still questioning every incident while living in denial about the big picture. The truth is they have strong feelings for each other, beyond friendship. You continue to collude with him to minimize.
When you began your other thread in March, it was established that they were attracted to one another. They were sharing food, playing pranks, confiding personal info, and texting outside work. He missed meetings due to being distracted by chatting to her. He admitted telling her confidential office business. Things were escalating.
*He held her hand (initiated by him). This was 2 months before your wedding.
*She told him that she needed to stay away from him because she was attracted, they were not just friends, and he was not single.
*He went into a mood at home and began to obsessively stalk her on 3 social media sites.
*In May she unfollowed him and he messaged her to ask why. She responded that she didn’t want to see his wedding photos and to leave her alone.
Now they are back in contact and he is still constantly checking her SM. He lies that it is only friendship. They exchanged messages while she was abroad, and she brought him a gift and a token, which he is keeping in his wallet.
Do you really need to ask if that means something?
You were previously advised to postpone or cancel your wedding, but you wouldn’t listen. Wake up. They have resumed their EA.