NC for this. Was going to join the dating thread on here but think this warrants it’s own thread as it’s quite long.
I have been dating a man for about 9 weeks now and fear I may have been lovebombed. He was very smooth initially and was telling me everything I wanted to hear such as wanting to settle down, how he thought I was amazing and how he hadn’t felt like this about anyone in a very long time. After about three weeks I became aware that he had quite extreme mood swings and he became cold towards me - I should have walked at this point but he gave me a story about how he was struggling with life in general but that he did really like me etc
Fast forward to the weekend just passed. He invited me to his house on Saturday and said he had planned a picnic for us which I was looking forward to. When I arrrived at his house he opened the door and didn’t say hello, he just let me in and walked off to the kitchen. I followed him, tried to make small talk etc but he was ignoring me. Whenever I said anything he would just make a face at me or grunt a response. He then got together the bits for the picnic and told me to get in the car. At this point I was starting to feel quite irritated; I asked him if he was ok and he said he was fine. As we were driving to the picnic spot he refused to talk. At this point I thought fuck this and told him that I’d rather go home if he was going to ignore me all day.
He then turned to me and told me I was a fucking joke and that I was behaving like a child. He said he was in a bad mood and that I needed to deal with it. The thing that really hurt was that he said he could see why I was single as I am a pain in the arse and that I behave like a juvenile. He actually said “ are you going to behave yourself now or are you going to continue being like a toddler in public? I know a lot of people round here and don’t want you to embarrass me.”
I was so shocked I didn’t reply and instead we carried on with the afternoon, with me trying like a fool to behave nicely and normally. This wasn’t the first time he had behaved like this towards me; there was another occasion prior to this where he was in a foul mood but I sucked it up and stupidly tried to be the ‘cool girl’ by letting it go.
I ended up spending the rest of this weekend with him and his mood improved by Saturday night but his outburst Really upset me. I dumped him last night and he said the reason he’s been in a bad mood so often is because he found out recently his ex (the love of his life as he told
Me) had got married and it had messed with his head. He even had the audacity to say I should have supported him instead of dumping him when he’s going through a bad patch 
Was I in the wrong for calling him out on his bad mood? The comments about me being childish and how he can see why I’m still single have really stung.