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AIBU to feel icky about my ex showering with our DD

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beingniceiscool11 · 18/06/2019 00:38

DD (5) told me today that Daddy goes in the shower with her - he has an enclosed cubicle shower with door like mine so you’d have to be standing right next to each other.... I know he used to bathe with her when she was littler..wearing swimming trunks by the time she got to about 3 years old.
But I said oh right does he wear his swimming costume? And she smiled and said “no he doesn’t mind ! He doesn’t wear anything !” And I said oh right, really? I tried not to show my shock but perhaps it came across in my voice a bit as she then added “it’s ok, he doesn’t touch me !”

...... this has just struck me as odd. And made me feel a bit 😬
He is 6’3” and his.. well... you know would be right in her face... she’s very tactile & if she sees me walking around with my pants on she will launch herself at me for a tight bear hug and blow raspberry on my tummy and sniff my skin and really like nuzzle me.

I don’t know this just makes me feel icky.

HopeMumsnet · 18/06/2019 08:41

Hi all,
We took this down overnight because it was receiving a fair number of troll reports, but having looked into the background we are reinstating as we are as sure as we ever can be (ie never truly 100% tbh) that this poster is on the level.

HebeMumsnet · 18/06/2019 12:36

Afternoon, OP. We've been having a look at this thread and we can see there's quite a bit of history here. Now that you've had lots of answers on the AIBU re the shower issue, we thought we might move the thread over to Relationships, where the marvellous Relationships crew are bound to have lots of spot-on advice about the wider issue here re your ex, CAFCASS etc.

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