1st day NC

[NoShitSherlockx]

I'm bloody proud of myself. First day yesterday NC. Today will be the same as I've blocked him on everything.

So many times I've been trying to do this and I think I've finally done it. I think I can finally move in with my life and learn to be happy!

What advise does anyone have to help stay NC? I'm trying to keep myself busy to keep my mind off of it!

I hear so many horrible things about them I wonder why I even bother. Today I think im much better off without a bf full-stop. I’m off out for food tomorrow with my girlfriends, could of been a date night but I’ll enjoy it more with my girls. I hope he doesn’t mess you around too much. This reminds me why we need to stick NC for a minimum of 30 days

Hi,

Sorry I've been MIA. I'm still NC and been really enjoying my freedom and not being bullied into staying in and not being able to go and talk to people or I'll be accused of flirting.

I've found tidying the house and decluttering has been a great pass time, and then relaxing in that space after makes it even better. Being able to watch what I want on tv and not moaned at for eating a bar of chocolate in the evening.

I've been meeting my friends for drinks and dinner and just really finally enjoying life. I didn't think it would happen this quickly but honestly you can do it. If someone is making you feel negatively about life itself then get rid. I've realised now life is too short to be worrying over people.

My ex was a narcissistic drug addict who has body shamed me, made me feel so low, made me feel like I'm not worth being here, hit me (only once but once is enough) and I was made to feel I would never be loved by anyone else, but I'm starting to love myself finally and realised I don't need anyone.

I hope you're all doing okay, it may take two weeks, two months or two years, but you will get there xxx

Sounds like some of you are on the up.
Im doing ok too. I think.
Few parties lined up.
And...
Think ive found somebody new!! Perfect distraction. Might even be able to take some time out from all this reading!!

wibbly that would be a great distraction for you! How long since you haven't been with ex?

Well its been over 30 days! Not much more i dont think, not too good at counting. Could be 50 but thats a big number.
Now Im wondering. Think i might be better off on my own, dont seem to have any boundaries. Trying to work through that.