Which man would you choose?

[MaiaRindell]

If you were single and open to a relationship, and two men asked you out, which would you choose? They are as physically attractive as each other, and both are interested in a relationship with you.

Option 1 - Kind, Thoughtful, gentle, clever, funny, loving, quiet, shy, bit boring, adores you.
Option 2 - Cheeky, funny, sociable, exciting, rich, popular, obviously really fancies you

If I had to choose, 2 because he has seemingly no negatives and 1 does (boring).

Realistically tho, neither, because if I actually liked either, I wouldn’t be dithering.

I would date both of them and then decide when you get yo know them better x

Both
Dating is about getting to know people, you're not committing to either of them but it will give you chance to get to know them both better before deciding what you want to do next

You need to date both until you find out what their real personalities are!

Option 2.

Option 1 sounds like a bit of a dullard.

Option 2 will break your heart but the sex will be amazing. Option 1 will never leave or let you down but you’ll be bored. So, neither. Find you a man who combines both good bits of the two.

Yourself not you

Date and sleep with both and go from there

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Date both

I'm with UnicornDust9

They both sound fine, but who is better in the sack would be the deal-breaker

Both of them. See if they'd go for a thruple

I've lived with a boring man for 20 years. He is as your first one is described, but we have no connection now he just isn't interested in anything other than going to work.
Go with two even if it doesn't work out and if it does that will be a bonus.

Logically, most relationships don't work out. Option 1 you'd end up leaving out of boredom. Option 2 would end in some dramatic way. Which one would you enjoy more as a temporary relationship?

Whichever one there's more chemistry with

2, because it’s a bad sign that you find 1 boring.

Oh God , I did man number 1 for nearly 20 years , he turned me boring in the end .
Number 2 is my recommendation

Go out with both a couple of times, see what you feel like after that.

Is man #2 also kind/thoughtful, or would you say he comes across as self centered?

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Neither sound very appealing. Pass. Find someone who isnt boring or an egomaniac.

@mountainpeakgeek #2 doesn't strike me as kind or thoughtful. He is the life and soul of the party and really flirty. The kind of person who'd take you to a gig and would know the band and you'd hang out backstage.
#1 isn't boring really, just compared to #2. He is happy to stay at home with a glass of wine. He is lovely to chat to and brings out the best in me. You could confide in him, trust him completely and be supported by him.

1 sounds like the better choice for a relationship, but 2 if you're just looking for fun.

1 if you are looking to settle down in the near future.
2 if you aren't.

If you find him boring (relative or not) then he is boring. He doesnt sound boring to me from the description but I might find #2 boring/tedious. Different strokes for different folks. Ultimately dont bother with someone who you dont find interesting.