Advice needed please

[FluffyTabbycat]

Hi I need some advice on this please,
So I've been with my fiance 2 years we have a baby
He has child to previous realtionship
We have her 3 times a week
Her mother has always been a bit of a nightmare- turning child against me etc
My fiance and her were split but were bascially stil shagging up to about 1 month before we became an item, anyways this morning I seen on his phone a message flash up from her
Didn't want to make it look like I was botherd plus just thought it would be regarding childcare
Please don't get judgey on next part
He had a shower
I went through his phone
Message was actually from her at 2 am in morning
It simply said 'outside'
Wtf
I don't know if she's trying to make him jelous, or whatever.
Anyways he's gone to work and I haven't said a thing, firstly when the message popped up I didn't want to seem crazy secondly after I've found out the time of message I don't want to let on that I've been through his phone
So just to clear it up we live together and were in bed together at 2 am with our 6 mnth old baby.
How do I deal with this

Also I can't sing my fiance praises enough he literally worships the ground I walk on, however why is he keeping this from

Had he deleted a previous message may be, which would have made that one make more sense?

Could he have slipped outside to meet her at 2am?

I'd have assumed she was outside at 2am. Were you awake then?

Sounds like she was outside at 2am. She might have sent it to the wrong person though

Possible it was late on delivery but otherwise, it means she was outside your place at 2am waiting for him to come out.

I mean i'd certainly have suspicions of any man who jumps straight from a serious relationship into something else in the first place though.

I was up with baby from about 2-3,30 he was snoring his head off in bed next to me
As for late delivery, it had on the message 2.22
On a iPhone so this is the time it was sent?

Could he have meant to be meeting her at 2am but slept through the message?
Was there any other messages on the thread or had they been deleted? Where was the 3 year old? You need to try and look through his phone again maybe?

There was nothing before and nothing after , no calls nothing

Baby was asleep in bed with us

He's deleted the messages before.

Nobody just says they are outside at 2am for no reason. Sorry

It couldn't have been 2.22 pm?

It could of course be delayed delivery.

I honestly don't think he would do that , meet her, or am I being naive
I feel Ike she's done it to cause trouble, honestly, but how do I approach this without sounding like a nut

Couldn't be 2,22 pm as it would say 14,22
If it's delayed delivery, it makes me wonder why was she telling him she was outside

No messages before? Why not, they share a child, there should be some surely, he must be deleting them. I'd check to see if he deletes the one you've now seen.

I think if she wanted to cause trouble, then she'd find something better than this. Unless she's got some additional needs then I'd say that's not about jealousy or trouble, that's part of a conversation that you're seeing rhe end of.

Nobody says they're outside for no reason. He's deleted the previous messages for whatever reason. You need to talk to him.

And agree with plipp,no other messages? So he's been deleting them? Because they would have text messages as they co parent.

Thank you all for your truthful advice
He's at work until late
Will I text him and ask him about it
Or confront tonight
I hate confrontation

Sorry there was messages
Just regarding the child nothing untoward

Could it be something Simple, like a delayed message and he asked where rhe kid was and she said outside? Doesn't explain why he's deleted rhe others but some folks do,

Would a delayed message not state the time it was sent

i think they say when they were delivered, not when they were sent.

I'm not sure though,

Confused