Mine finished five years ago, and it was hell. It hurt so much. I'd really trusted the person about physical and mental health as well as abuse issues.
Then one day she decided to put a thread on MN about me. Then she took everyone's advice on here and tore me to shreds. How do I know that? She printed the thread off and gave it to me. It ran to pages.
It was devastating. Not only had she put confidential things only she and one other knew about on here but she'd invented an affair with her husband and claimed I delibrately took minor overdoses all the time purely to wind her up and was physically fit and healthy and needed a GCSE and a job (all total shit).
I told one person after they asked why I'd stopped going to that church and stopped seeing this person and learnt she'd told everyone in the church about what I'd done to her, how I'd nearly made her commit suicide, forced her into a breakdown and had sex with her husband.
It's been five years. She's still telling people about it and bringing it up - two months ago someone who barely knows me and knows her told me to leave her alone. I have, for five years!!. She however, keeps asking to help me with things to do with my disabilities, I get emails and texts asking if I need anything and how things are and if she can help to let her know. It's pretty obvious if you were to see me in RL I struggle a lot.
I'll never rely on a friend for help with anything again. I really trusted her.