To marry now or later...

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have two choices either a registrar's office wedding with no guests (but baby born within wedlock) or wait and have a "big" wedding with just my side of the family (they live overseas and I haven't had a big wedding before whereas he has).
My first wedding was like I could have in the next couple of months and I found that to be utterly depressing and one of the saddest days of my life BUT I'd like to be married before baby is here. I wish I could do it all by post! I know it makes not legal difference apart from re-registering the birth and I can have a party in a few years (when we can save for tickets for 7 transatlantic tickets...) And we have no local friends so an "intimate" dinner is out of the question.

I feed and clothe these children. I've given them a home. I cook for them and do the school run. We even celebrated American mother's Day together and everybody was happy (nobody forced them to do anything). they all go on about different baby names. It's a new life for all of us and we're trying to make the most of it. I at least see it as a wonderful opportunity I'd never thought I'd had. Everybody has moved on, i would have thought MN could too.

Is that why you've lied on your other threads about not having any DC of your own, about relationship timescales, and not ever mentioning your previous marriage, just your "husbands"? Why you've gone through multiple usernames? Yet, you expect us to believe it's all worked out dandy, purely on your say so?

You are, and always will be, an absolute disgrace, OP.

I guess of things really go south (which I don't expect them to) there is no way he can afford a good lawyer to stop me from taking the baby away as crude as that sounds.

I wouldn't rely on this. Also, it's dreadful to consider it. And it's a crime if you mean out of the country.