Would you date yourself?

[JoeyBartonHanson]

And why

I wouldn't , I'm not that interesting as a person.

God no!

I'm too moody.

Absolutely! I’m interesting, interested and active. What’s not to like!?

Fuck, no. That's why I haven't dated since 2006!

I would after I’d got to know me!

No

I'm
Moody
Needy, but at other times I withdraw and can't bear to be touched
Like 'me' time too much
Unpredictable/hard to read: might want to text all day/night, then might not want to text for days
Lazy when it comes to sex

I'm married

No. Because I wouldn't have time for me IYSWIM

Nope,as I wouldn't want to date a single parent

I wouldn’t at the moment. But that’s because I’m having mental health issues at the moment and dating me probably wouldn’t be great at the moment

Well...

On the plus side I’m quite funny, a good cook, solvent, always up for an adventure and quite filthy.

On the negative side, my general and health anxiety is a bit draining, I have low self esteem so need constant reassurance, I’m a bit bossy and my family are difficult.

On balance, probably not.

Absolutely no!

No cause I am a bit of a nutter to be honest.

Ummm, dunno - I have lots of interests, like talking about stuff, am active, lively and I am loving, supportive and loyal.

However, I have no job, young kids and still living with my Ex as have nowhere else to go ( we live separately in the same house).

So, probably no, I wouldn't due to my life situation. But I'd be missing out as if you gave me a chance and hung in there I could be a great lifetime partner!

I would only use myself as a booty call. Definitely no serious relationship.

On the basis of my personality, characteristics, interests, lifestyle, hobbies I'd say yes.

However, my cripplingly low self esteem and body confidence mean I'm an utter liability.

I also have HFA, which means I get fixated on stuff, misunderstand stuff, struggle to maintain friendships and relationships. I need a lot of time on my own and have a few 'quirky' habits (stims) that some people find embarrassing.

So, on balance, no.

I am in a relationship but constantly on the verge of ending it.

Yes, I would!

But that’s after 7 years of shite - end of marriage due to an affair (ex-H not me), various bereavements and other devious men...oh, & throw in the perimenopause too..

I’m now on HRT, and I’ve recently turned a massive corner, where I will not take any shite from a man anymore - I know my value. I’m far from perfect but I’m a good person, caring, funny, clever and capable - yes, I can be moody sometimes, and winter really drags me down - but I feel that any man who gets to be in my life is a lucky guy.

I’m not interested though 😂....not sure if that will change in the near future - but I’m honestly not bothered and I’m just loving feeling like I’m finally back to being me after a tough few years - I’m stronger, wiser and we’ll see what happens

Oh fuck, absolutely not.

Before kids yes
Now scruffy fatter too tired to even talk- no

No I’m too ugly

Before kids maybe based on body alone I was a knockout...but then again I'd probably consider myself annoying and clueless .

Now I look terrible 95% of the time. I can't bear to look at my stomach and thighs in the mirror. My hair is another story. My skin is a bit meh.

I also am rather awkward socially and even though I have a dry sense of humour which DP loves he says that you do have to really get to know me to get my jokes etc.

Not much of a catch I'm afraid..

No way. Far too high maintenance.

No, I want my own way all the time.

I would never cook for anyone else. I don’t like other people’s tv choices. I don’t like sharing my bed with sweat and hair and body secretions. I just wouldn’t compromise.

Hell no, I'm a no game plan kinda person with serious self doubt issues. I'm in a relationship but permanently have one eye on the exit.

Hell yeah ! I don't mind being muddy but scrub up well when required ! I laugh at farts and I can burp the national anthem, who wouldn't want to date me ?!!

No . As selfish as it sounds, I wouldn't date a single parent and definitely not someone who can't make the right choices and is living my life