Last week OH was behaving very out of character, due I think to unusual stresses at work, he went out all day (7 hours) alone without telling me ( we were supposed to spend the day together) stayed out all night at a mutual male friends and came home at 6.45 am.
Due to this, when I saw he left his phone in the bathroom, I had a look (wrong I know)
He’d recieved a text from a woman he works with that was suggestive and saying when’s he’s free can they talk.
He unlocked the bathroom door from the outside at that point and came in, something he would never do, Possibly because he realised he’d left his phone in there with me?
I asked him about the message, he said that’s what’s she’s like to everyone, but denied any knowledge of her fancying him .
So, I still felt very uncomfortable about this, so found his phone bill and looked through it, I can see that he has text her regularly, 11 texts at 1am onwards on one occasion and most days , morning and evening during Feb, not much lately but of course I wouldn’t know if he was using whatsapp . he admitted last night that he did know she fancied him, that others at work had told him, I asked him about all the text messages this morning and he was very angry and went off to work refusing to talk about it.
I feel like I’m going crazy here, he told me I’m paranoid, am I??