Husband and sister in law

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would it bother you if your husband and sister in law slept together before you met ?

I think what's put peoples backs up is phrase 'the usual'.

I havent, nor do I know anyone who has told someone they might be pregnant when they know they arent in an attempt to keep someone/cause some drama.

Its not usual behaviour. The phrasing makes you sound like you really dont like/trust women, including this woman

I dont really get your issue. Assuming this is your dh or dh to be. He has a casual relationship. It ended in bad terms. 2 years later she got with his brother.

If your dh or dh to be has an issue with her and his brother that's up to him. I dont understand why you would have a problem with your dh/dh to be.

Where have I said I have an issue ? Other than I personally wouldn’t be with someone my sister has been with? Also I know quite a few girls who’ve done this

Why do posts like this always turn to a witch hunt, over analysing peoples word choices, it really was a simple question of would it bother you this is WHY I didn’t want to go into detail

Other than I personally wouldn’t be with someone my sister has been with? Also I know quite a few girls who’ve done this

That wasnt the question though. The question was how would you feel if your dh had slept with his sil.

I guess I don't get why the issue, in the situation with pregnancy, is something that would impact how I felt about my dh or dh to be. Perhaps it would impact what I thought of bil and his wife.

That's all I was saying. I dont get why it would influence how I felt about my partner, when they havent really done anything.

Yes, it would bother me.