Did you get married when you didn't want to?

[rubyblueeyes]

i did. I remember everything going very fast and the wedding was booked quickly. I did have doubts but went ahead. 3 years later we've separated. Anyone else in the same boat?

Sorry perhaps it's an exaggeration to say I don't have 5 years to have kids but I'm reaching an age where i need to be serious about making it happen.

In the lead-up to the wedding, I remember feeling jealous of women like my colleague, who were madly in love with their partners and wholeheartedly looking forward to getting married.

We had children and had been together 13 years. It didn’t feel like the wrong thing to do exactly, but it didn’t feel perfectly right either.

Yes! I was well warned and something in me knew he wasn't really what was good for me....but I was young, possibly a bit too swept up in it all - actually had an absolutely beautiful wedding! Unfortunately the 3 year marriage - nat so much!