Long story short, I met a man who is much younger than me on OLD. At first I was not really into the meeting, however, he insisted so in the end, I agreed to meet him at a restaurant that he said that he knew well.
I got there on time and waited for over an hour and then left - texted him to say that I was leaving - it was around 9.30pm, he rang begging me to wait for another 30 minutes. I refused as I was already at the bus stop and did not want to wait in the street in this area - he was driving. Anyway, he apologised and wanted to arrange to meet again.
After three weeks, we have not met yet, however, I have noticed the little things which bothers me a lot about his behaviour, when he said, I will call you at xx time, he would call three to four hours later. I run my own business, so time management is vital in my life.
I don't feel that we are on the same page so I told him that I no longer want to meet him and I blocked and deleted the number afterwards. He has made contact from another number to tell me that I was "unstable, fake, immature and ingenuine …."
I do not think that I am unstable, I have tolerated a lot of bad behaviour and inconsideration from men. I am simply putting the boundaries. I cannot afford to make the same mistakes that I made in my 20s and 30s. He has continued to text me from a different number begging to meet, I know that I have closed that chapter in my book.
What is your take on this and any advice would be appreciated?