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Ringing and texting all the time.

55 replies

Fullofthought · 26/04/2019 13:14

Been seeing someone since Jan and recently he has started to text and call all the time. If I don't answer a text straight away he is calling me if I don't answer the phone he tries to come round my home or worse my parents home to see where I am. I cannot do anything just me and my daughter. He wants to be in with everything I do. He questions what I spend my own money on and wants to know everything that's going on in my life. I'm feeling suffocated by him. And to get any piece and quite I have to go out, tell my mum and dad I'm going out and switch my phone off. Meaning my mum and dad then get a visit off him unless they go out too. Help!

OP posts:
Happynow001 · 28/04/2019 14:05

Just in case he comes to your door: ensure the internal door chain is on all the time you are home. Tell your daughter to call you but NOT to open the door. I'm assuming he didn't have a key.

BumbleBeee69 · 28/04/2019 14:14

Christ OP, if he turns up call the Police, don't let him bully or manipulate you lovely Flowers

AsleepAllDay · 28/04/2019 14:23

Sounds like a stalker

AsleepAllDay · 28/04/2019 14:25

Glad you texted him. Please keep everyone posted - parents, friends, anyone at work you can trust, your kids dad if he's still in the picture.

Take a pic of the message he has sent you, and of your phone log with all the texts and calls.

Leaving a relationship is one of the most dangerous times for a woman and he could easily escalate or hurt you trying to 'get you back'

PepsiLola · 28/04/2019 14:31

I imagine by the sounds of how he has been you're not going to be able to block him and that's it. He'll prob be round your house soon.

Make sure you've told someone you may need support

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