How would you take this comment?

[Dieu]

I suspect this is very trivial, but I'm a bit at a comment made by a friend. I felt it was a bit rude, but not sure if I'm being overly sensitive.
The friend - well, I use the term a bit loosely - is a guy I went on a couple of dates with, but I decided I wasn't interested in him romantically. Regardless, he seems keen to keep in touch as friends and messages me most days. I'm happy enough to go along with this, as he's a nice, intelligent and interesting person.
I am rather overweight, as I love food and overeat a bit
I wished him a Happy Easter today, and he asked if I'd eaten lots of chocolate. I said yes, and he replied 'same as every other day then'.
Would you be a bit by this? I am normally very good at taking responsibility, but this seems a bit presumptuous and rude from someone I don't know well at all.

Well maybe he thought it was okay and it was just a joke but if it makes you feel like crap just drop him. And why is he messaging every day anyway, that would do my head in.

You should've texted back "Cremation or burial?"

Id ask him what he ment by it, maybe he did mean it in a bad way but also could be he doesnt see that your over weight just see's u for u and just ment that as in most women eat lots of chocolate.

That comment can be light hearted fun, or mean spirited sniping.
None of us can tell you which.
We can only tell you two things:

1. It can be either, so don’t feel unreasonable if you think the latter
2. You have gut instinct for a reason - the person on MN most likely to interpret it the correct way is you.

So - you don’t need him in your life, it didn’t sit right - so ditch him.

(and I say that despite knowing in my friendships that would be fun)