He emptied his pockets on the kitchen table the other day. I picked up a set of cards, 1 pay as you go top up card for tesco mobiles and 1 card that has the pop off tesco sim with the sim already out of the card.
Neither of us has a tesco mobile. some of the printed writing on the cards has been scratched, so it looks to me like it's a few weeks old and been in his pocket for a while.
I asked him whats this? do you have a second phone? he said no and said he did not know how it ended up there. I asked him again he shrugged and said i dont know!
I stupidly rang the number there and then but it went to voice mail. he looked unsurprised and smiled. I thought he seemed smug and unsurprised. I checked the number of mobile validation on a website and it says its a valid active number.
So as not to drip feed,
He has a mobile phone which he had for years and he has never stopped me accessing or using it or borrowing it.
The relationship isn't going well and he has 2 days a week where i am not around but he usually looks scruffy, doing DIY or lazing about in work clothes. His job is manual and he has been coming home 2 hours later smelling of booze since 2 or 3 months ago. He says he is drinking at the workshop with his work mates after work. when i call him he doesnt answer or if he does he keeps the conversation very brief almost grunting instead of actually talking properly like i am at X and i will be back at X he's like umm hmmm. he comes home smelly and filthy from his job so, i can't imagine he is having sex afterwards?!
He doesn't look clean or groomed as if meeting someone but I'm wondering if i'm being stupid or what
What do I do? am I paranoid?