How do you love a lazy man?

[Rythmisachancer]

That's it really.
He's practically very hands on once he's had the metaphorical kick up the backside around 4 times a day.
He can't get up in the morning though and I'm fed up of feeling and sounding like his mother. I'm even using the firm tone of voice 👎

He also won't get out of bed until I'm out of bed during the working week (stuck in routine) and now that I am in bed feeding the baby each morning on waking, won't get out until I do. This means a big rush to get us both showered and everyone dressed. Fed up of asking him to take a bloody shower whilst I feed the baby rather than him lying there farting whilst his alarm goes off 20 times.
He's killing the love.

He gets up....he goes to work....he provides for you and your family....he is good with your kid.

I do that. Where's my medal??

This would drive me mad my dp came lazy at times not with getting up for work with housework ect we both work full time and have 3dcs I have to ask 3/4 times for a bit of help around the house he just sits there while I do everything around him I've been calm I've shouted I've been stressed nothing changes

Can be not came

Yes op, wake up earlier and set the baby aside do you can gently and lovingly coax this adult man out of bed.

He gets up....he goes to work....he provides for you and your family....he is good with your kid

To quote the Great Chris Rock... 'That's what you're SUPPOSED to do- you low expectation having muthaf*cka'