I'm feeling so confused.
I have been married for 11 years ,with my husband for 18 years.
We have been through a lot together, had our ups and downs.
But one thing that bothers me,is his attitude towards sex and my body. Hes always been like this, in a way,but this situation has made me think.
I have been signed off work, after an operation, not a big op,but still feeling rough and not myself.
Hes been working from home ,so he could support me. The whole 2 weeks has been full of constant innuendo,talking about sex,making gestures simulating sex,messages about toys and lingerie he likes from Ann summers.
Even when he cuddles me or we are in bed together,hes constantly squeezing my breasts and touching my bottom and down there. He doesnt take it any further and acknowledges I'm not well,but it makes me really uncomfortable and he wont stop.
He said its because hes had to go a while without sex(3 weeks) so hes thinking of it a lot. We usually have it minimum twice a week. Which hes not happy with either as it's not 2-3 times a day
But it's got to the point it's made me angry I feel like a piece of meat.
But he comes across as such a nice person,kind,generous thoughtful,But hes starting to make my skin crawl when he touches me or kisses. How do I stop feeling like this???