Would you try for a child with someone you weren’t 100% sure of?

[mulberryapples]

I’m asking because I’m at the age where I just can’t wait (nearly 39.)

I’m thinking (probably recklessly) that even if it didn’t work out I’d have a child.

Why would you give your child a father for life who you are not sure you want for a partner at all?

This, absolutely. How selfish to allow your drive to procreate at all costs take precedence over all sense and reason.