My ex and I had been arguing for a while. There had been a lot of nasty things said, but we kept in contact, presumably because neither of us really wanted to split. Both have our insecurities. Both have told the other we've arranged dates (when we haven't - it's just been said to hurt each other.)
Last week, after being dumped, I booked myself an overnight stay jus for myself in a spa hotel. After we started talking again, I emailed today to let her know. I'd already told her I was away for the night, but clarified by saying.
"To make you feel a little easier, I'm going to xxx spa tonight. I'm not on a date. You are welcome to call if you wish."
This was to clarify that I wasn't on a date. I then had a shower. By the time I got out, I had emails containing all of the following:
"Who are you going with? You're spending overnight in a spa?"
"I feel much worse now I know you're at a spa overnight and have dinner booked with some mystery person."
"Finding out you're at a spa with someone and have dinner booked is very very odd. I'm allowed to call? Gee thanks, do I need to call at a specific time so I dont interrupt who you are with?"
A few hours later when I pointed out that she shouldn't have jumped to conclusions and accused me of being with someone, she said:
"I never accused you of being there with someone. Utter lies.
"Read both the email and WhatsApp back and I never say it. It's all in your head and you had a rage of anger because of a made up thing in your head."
Am I missing something here? I know emails can be misinterpreted, but hers were clear no?
I'm sick of being accused of things I've not done - and then have it denied that the accusation occurred. Please tell me I'm not going mad here....