Silent treatment...

[beckymad]

Me and 'D'P had a disagreement earlier.

Resulted in him telling me to fuck off. I responded and told him to get some respect.

This was at around 10 this morning. I text about two hours ago to see what time he was home... no reply.

I know he's been on his phone since the text. How do you deal with silent treatment? I want to phone him and ask if there is a reason he is ignoring me but I know I shouldn't just cave in and give in to his childish ways...

Do I just ignore until he decides he's over his mood?

Getting that nob out of your life is priceless though!

Worth every penny to get your life back, though!

£600 is cheap to get rid of such an arsehole.

It won't feel like it to you, but all of us on the outside looking in knows he is a complete waste of space and we also know you could do 1000% better

£600 is a lot, but how much more spending money would you have wasted on holiday? Can you cancel your AL at work and go in and at least get the days back?

I would message the friends you were going with with a very neutral message such as "Just to let you know, X and I are no longer together so I won't be coming on next week's holiday. I hope you have a lovely time x"

(I'm assuming you booked 2 double rooms so even if they had someone else to invite last minute, it wouldn't be appropriate. "Hey Grandma! Fancy coming to Malaga next week? Only thing is you have to share a bed with this dickhead") 😂😂😂

It's over Easter so will be nice to have the AL off with my family! Sister is a teacher so gets bored in the holidays as everyone's at work! And I've only had to book 2 days because of the bank holidays!

Haha names can't be changed and no cancellations! Yes two double rooms booked so no chance of taking someone else unless he's been talking to someone else, wouldn't surprise me!!!

Had a really shit night tonight though. He's really fucked my head up!

Op, I had to pay €30,000 to divorce my sulky, stonewalling, cruel nasty man child. 🤣🤣🤣

Consider yours a bargain.

Wow... that's a lot haha!

Still nothing today! just keeping busy with friends!

Update for everyone, it's completely over. I ended it. I've got all my stuff back and will try and cancel the holiday Monday x

Good for you... take back the control and never let anyone treat you like that again. If they don't make you feel like it's a 'fuck yes!' From them, then it's a no, and let them fucking go. Boy bye 👋🏻... keep strong

carrotgirl87 - thank you! Just feel a bit lost. I suppose it will take a while to build myself back up. I just want to fast forward a few months!

Well done, you won't regret it down the line, even if it's hard now.

Becky did you pay for his bit as well?
If you paid for it all then tell him to sod off he can't go.

And who has the tickets?

I have the tickets. I booked it and paid on my card. We all paid for ourselves

I'd be tempted to just fuck it off to be honest. The less you care about the holiday at this point the better, all it is is a weight around your neck x

See if you can get a refund, or if you can change it to another holiday

I would just forget about it but we're going with 2 other people... they're aware of what's happened and want to know if we can cancel or if they'll be going on their own