Can any gay ladies give me advice ...I really like her,what shall I do?

[sammypre]

I'm bisexual.
Only a few close friends know this.
I really like this lady who is gay (and out ) we get on great and I think we've flirted.
She obviously assumes I'm straight As only 3 people know I'm bisexual.
Shall I tell her? Or hope if we continue flirting and chatting she might ask me out?
Would she ask me out if she doesn't know I'm bisexual.
I'm 38 and she's 39 so should probably have the guts by now to just say but I don't

No update.
Still haven't told her
Have good intentions too
Just waiting for the right time I think

There is no right time!
Look you can either go for it and see what happens. She might reject you, she might have been waiting for this moment.

Or you can carry on as you are smiling at her messages and wistfully looking at her facebook messages tying yourself in knots to see the "hidden meaning". During that time she is out living her life and is likely to meet someone else, whilst you wait for the right moment

My best friend is gay and i know is very conscious about not mis reading straight people. I think you could flirt allday with her and she would still write it off as being friendly.

Making eye contact, facebook messages and laughing at jokes wont be look any different from being friendly.

My best friend (mel) recently got engaged to a lovely woman, and it turns out a mutual friend (we will call her sue) was "totallyin love" with her and had been for years.

Sue had been sitting and thinking about it for ages, she had found all kinds of meanings in different things. She even thought mel had rejected her at some point.

Mel fancied sue initially however felt that sue had never given her any indication of being interested back (she also thought that sue had ignored her advance at some point!). Thus mel met a lovely lady and is now very happy.

Sue was obviously sad when mel met someone and it all came out. She was bitter about this, but ultimately had done nothing in 2 years and magically expected mel to just know what she was thinking and somehow wait for the stars to collide or what ever.

Dont be sue