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Sick of his outburst's in front of DD!

41 replies

HollyLM · 10/03/2019 21:58

So... I took my partners car to my DD's swimming lesson this morning. In walking back to the car I notice the back was all scratched and dented, so I called him immediately and said "did you know your car has scratches etc on it?"

He responded with "WHAT?! Are you fucking joking?! I knew you shouldn't have taken my Fucking car, bring it back to me now!"

Naturally, inside I'm thinking oh my god, here we go! (Let's remember I didn't do anything!)

Me and my DD arrive home, to which his two sons are there aged 13 & 15. He goes outside and responds with "FUCK SAKE!!! LOOK AT MY FUCKING CAR, YOU DON'T RESPECT ANYTHING OF MINE!)

I then try say hang on a minute, this wasn't me? I called you to say this was on your car! He then walks upstairs and we all suddenly hear him LITERALLY SCREAM....FOR FUCK SAKE!!!!!! I go up and he's screaming at me saying I don't fucking care what you say or what you do, but you can pay for it to get fixed!! I try and explain it wasn't me and that actually when we all went out for dinner the night before he parked where he shouldn't have and even a taxi driver said it was risky parking there etc! but I get told To fuck off!

The main point is... he shouldn't act like that should he in front of children?!

This was 10am this morning, we haven't spoken since!

OP posts:
Nanny0gg · 10/03/2019 22:02

Why are you with him? I assume he isn't your children's father?

HollyLM · 10/03/2019 22:06

... he's my DD's father. His teenage sons are from as previous relationship!

OP posts:
M0reGinPlease · 10/03/2019 22:07

The main point is... he shouldn't act like that should he in front of children?!

He shouldn't act like that at all.

BoomTish · 10/03/2019 22:08

Those poor kids, what a miserable existence.

elephantoverthehill · 10/03/2019 22:11

I find it very sad that someone can put their feelings about an inaminate object above the feelings of a human being

IdblowJonSnow · 10/03/2019 22:12

Ummm, get rid.

GertrudeCB · 10/03/2019 22:15

Erm, he is a cunt.

pallisers · 10/03/2019 22:19

He isn't your partner. He is the aggresive, unreasonable, unpleasant man you live with.

Cherrysoup · 10/03/2019 22:22

And you’re with him why, precisely? I couldn’t respect therefore be with an idiot like this.

Merryoldgoat · 10/03/2019 22:34

I massively dented my DH’s car the first time I drove it.

He said ‘are you ok?’

Your DH is a dick.

Aquamarine1029 · 10/03/2019 22:36

Get rid of this twat. Fuck him and his car.

MyKingdomForBrie · 10/03/2019 22:42

And you're with him why..?! You deserve so much better.

Isth · 10/03/2019 22:46

He sounds utterly vile. He shouldn’t be acting that way full stop, around anyone, but certainly you’re setting your daughter up to think being screamed at and abused by men is normal.

olivesarelife · 10/03/2019 23:05

He did the damage. Now blaming you. Hence didnt even give you a chance to speak.

LovingLola · 10/03/2019 23:15

You have been posting about this dreadful man for months.
Please please make the decision to leave him.

Samind · 10/03/2019 23:22

Yeah he has no respect for you what's over and just setting a precedent for all teens. To the boys that it's ok to treat a woman like that and to the girl, to expect to be treated this way. He probably knows himself he was the guilty party regarding th paint scratches

Merryoldgoat · 11/03/2019 00:04

I looked at your posting history:

Arguments
Multiple break ups
Drug use
Prostitutes

There’s nothing more anyone can say. You should leave him but you won’t.

But i honestly do t understand what you hope to get from these posts as everyone tells you the same stuff every time.

ReallyReallyNo · 11/03/2019 00:08

He’s a nasty bully and would be out the door of he even fucking dared speak to me like that let alone in front of the kids!
Get rid OP and tell him to shove is car up is arse!

ReallyReallyNo · 11/03/2019 00:10

Oh ffs! 🙄🙄🙄

Hamsternauts · 11/03/2019 07:34

I looked at your posting history

Arguments
Multiple break ups*
Drug use*
Prostitutes*

OP you are letting your child down by failing to protect her from this.

Horsemenoftheaclopalypse · 11/03/2019 08:36

He shouldn’t do this ever.

Why are you with him? He sounds awful

NoFucksImAQueen · 11/03/2019 08:41

your daughter deserves better. if you don't leave for you please leave for her

HollyLM · 11/03/2019 11:33

..... what is wrong with me?!!!

OP posts:
YoLoHogwomanay · 11/03/2019 11:36

He is abusive. Please leave for your and your DDs mental health.

Merryoldgoat · 11/03/2019 11:38

Why do you stay? Genuine question.

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