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How to forgive an emotional affair

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Forgiveness2019 · 09/03/2019 15:27

My OH got close to a colleague, lines were crossed and now their friendship has been out in the open he realises it crossed a line. They don’t message anymore and he told her I suspected something and that he needs to cut contact. So I want to move on from this but it’s litereally eating me up. He says no feelings but he knows lines were crossed as he kept her secret and respects he has done wrong. Any advice? Times a healer they say so I am trying to just get through each day.

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CoffeeChocolateWine · 28/03/2019 19:48

@karenb6702, bloody hell, I’m so sorry. He is a very cruel and cold-hearted man. And he clearly has no remorse and is loving the thrill of it. Sadly he clearly plans to have sex with her if he said that they haven’t had sex “yet”. It must be such a shock but you are better off without him. What a monumental bastard.

Spongebob86 · 30/03/2019 06:20

This resonates with me so much OH has a work colleague who I know about they have been friends for a while but I have noticed that she has texted him quite a bit happened to see last night that there were heart emoji on messages clearly not just friends, all came out last night they kissed at work Xmas do apparently very drunk etc. What hurts the most is that he continued to text her as this whole time I don't know what to do oh and I am currently preg

HowOverAbove · 30/03/2019 07:57

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MsDogLady · 30/03/2019 15:09

@HowOverAbove, how are you dealing with such contempt? My husband would be gone.

SilverBirdie · 30/03/2020 08:00

Following

flippityflobberty · 31/03/2020 09:03

@HowOverAbove that's awful

maras2 · 31/03/2020 11:42

1 year old ZOMBIE THREAD

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