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I've met a man, help me reel him in...

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Fizog · 08/09/2004 16:04

Well, I've finally met a man that I really like. Weve been out 3 times now but I have a feeling I might like him more than he likes me. I'm not sure of this as he doesn't give much away and we have had a great time everytime we've met up...

so ladies, how do I make him realise that he can't live without me???

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bundle · 08/09/2004 18:04

jewish??

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Fizog · 08/09/2004 20:01

The bacon was in his fridge so I assume he's not jewish... might find out for sure if I'm lucky!!

Bundle - dark blond hair, blue eyes, convservative.

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ChicPea · 08/09/2004 20:13

Whatever you do, don't call him and always end the conversation. Oh and don't make yourself too available.

PS Going back to earlier postings: Scotts in Mount Street, Mayfair which is a fish restaurant have private tables, ie curtains around booths. They personally give me the creeps, like who is behind there? feeling, but you may wish to check this out when your relationship is established?! Don't offer this until he is head over heels in love with you and then after the BJ's in Scotts, then he will think he can't live without you.

Tanzie · 08/09/2004 22:44

BJ and fish supper? A match surely made in heaven...

sobernow · 08/09/2004 22:47

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Fizog · 09/09/2004 08:46

lol sobernow.

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Chinchilla · 09/09/2004 16:42

Seriously Fizog, if you think that you are more interested than him, don't let him see it. Be unavailable occasionally, and let him think your life is a social whirl!

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Fizog · 09/09/2004 19:01

Thanks Chinchilla, think you could be right, it's finding the right balance

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Chinchilla · 09/09/2004 20:22

No probs...I'm a whizz at this dating game in theory, as I've chatted with my single sis loads. Unfortunately I'm crap at my own, very married, life

Good luck with this man. Have you seen/heard from him again since Wednesday, or is it too soon?

WideWebWitch · 09/09/2004 20:32

Good lord sobernow and CD! You made me larf. Fizog, treat him a little bit mean and it will keep him keen imo. Don't overdo it, just don't be available all the time, make sure you've got your own life too etc. It works I reckon. Well, that and blow jobs, obviously.

Branster · 09/09/2004 21:02

Good luck Fizog!

Don't rush in with that BJ yet. Especially if you're really good at it. He needs to diserve it first.

This thread really made me laugh!

Twinkie · 20/09/2004 15:46

Well Fizog - has this gone anywhere? have you seen him again?

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Fizog · 22/09/2004 14:35

4th date secured for Saturday - WOOHOO!!!!

Reckon I can get a t-shirt pronted before then??

Am v. nervous, v excited - hoepfully can see each other a little more regularly now his work has settled down and now I'm back from holiday

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sobernow · 22/09/2004 15:07

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Fizog · 22/09/2004 15:21

Sure will, rude t-shirt, no knickers, phallic food, lots of BJs and a bacon sarnie in the morning.

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Kayleigh · 22/09/2004 15:44

PMSL at this thread

sobernow, Knobu, inspired !!!!!!!!!

Thomcat · 22/09/2004 15:49

ooohhh, a 4th date! Nice one. Look forward to hearing more about it.

CountessDracula · 22/09/2004 16:05

Fizog excellent news!

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