Had a great date a couple of weeks ago. Chatted for ages and he asked to meet again. Said he’d love to see me again and then maybe a few times after that. All quite sweet. One text when he got back to say he’d had a nice night.
Had a few phone calls since then, all really fun and a good hour or so.
He then didn’t follow up to arrange the second date (and neither did I), I then text him and he said he had thought I wasn’t interested in meeting. I told him I was. We re arranged for this Friday.
Today he texts and says he’s been invited to a concert with his mates who managed to get him a spare ticket last minute and that they are old mates from school and it’s all short notice. I said I feel like you’re messing me around a bit. He said he wasn’t and it was just something he didn’t want to miss. I then offered to meet either Saturday or Sunday this weekend, to which he said he’s not usually this regimented with times?! I said I was simply being polite and wanted to make sure we met as I have other things to do over the weekend and that if he’s busy not to worry. He’s not replied.
This all sounds shit but it is so so nice when we speak, different to anyone else I’ve dated (and I’ve dated a lot!!).
What do you think? Am I being an idiot here or is he? I don’t want to get invested in someone who shows red flags (been there done that) and I know now is the time to call it quits rather than a couple more months down the line when it’s much harder.