Online dating: how much has a men spent on you (£) before you "do the deed"?

[TwixBix1]

Online dating: how much has a men spent on you (£) before you "do the deed"?

Tell me your age and how much a man has spent in total on you before you would do the deed with him (on average)?

Yes I know it's not at all about the money, it's about the emotional connection, quality time spent, and is very individual per person but I'm curious to know the financial side of things.

Daisy, is that a Sharon Botts reference? Did you disgrace her by going to the roller disco in your school PE kit?

I’ve met plenty of men online dating and I fucked any of them it is because I wanted to. I couldn’t care less about them “investing” in me for “reward”. That’s just not how relationships work.

It’s terrifying to me that you think like this

As if any healthy woman or for that matter man’s decision as to whether have sex with someone

Has anything to do with how much is ‘spent on them’

Answer us this:

Do you feel you owe a man sex if he spends money on you? What’s your number?

If so

You need some serious therapy regardless of your gender and

Here’s a tip for free

Your thinking is deeply abnormal

If you go a wander down the Glasgow barrowlands after dark there's plenty folk that can help you out with a price list lmao

Your post sounds like it was written by an entitled, resentful and disappointed man who is generally inadequate and can’t attract any woman.
If not, it’s really fucking weird.

@Starch

@SeaweedDress

WTAF?

If it costs you money mate, you're either boring or unpleasant.

The night I met DH, another repellent man was trying to buy me drinks, I assume because he thought my vagina was some sort of fruit machine that would start paying out eventually.

DH didn't get me a drink... he's hot and lovely though. And hot.

MrsApplepants there is a subreddit for blokes like this. 'I held a door open for her and she didn't fuck me. I'm such a nice guy! Why won't the stupid bitch give me a change?'
It is equally terrifying and hilarious.

Chance**

I bought dp at least three drinks before he would take his shirt off. Fucking tease.

How much do you charge op?

Cracking up at this- its SO weird OP, what a mercenary and sinister way of thinking.
In answer to the question- I have no idea, I'm never counting because it has absolutely nothing to do with what anyone has spent . I sleep with people I like, who treat me well, having got to know them and appraised to the best of my ability they aren't throwing out any red flags, and when i feel comfortable, provided I am attracted to them. So not very often . Why do you think payment might equal sex, or that the two have anything to do with one another outside of prostitution?

Are you a man?

Do we agree on a sliding scale...
Johnny Depp,. And I'd buy him a coffee first...
A man at the other end of the scale could spend millions on me and i still wouldn't give him the key to the chastity belt.

Johnny Depp,. And I'd buy him a coffee first..

He could buy me a boat and a villa in Tuscany and he's not getting a sniff. Weird, dirty, sue-happy, drunk. Allegedly.

@Prinstress

is your pussy like a toll road

🤣🤣🤣🤣👏👏👏

With automatic barriers and everything 🤣🤣🤣

Someone I know won £64,000 on Who wants to be a Millionaire? He tried it on with me mentioning his win.
I realised at that point if I did have a price it was more than that!

Roosh, is that you?

OK, I'll bite - it used to be an average of 3-5 dates of dating before we 'did the deed' - or in my 20s about 3 weeks.

In my 20's generally men paid for first few dates, just the way it was. Recently a few years ago but before I settled down, if the man asked you for a date he paid, preferably he also paid for at least the next month or 2 afterwards - not me suggesting this - my DB and a close platonic male friend suggested this. I often went Dutch though on second date or e.g. if he bought cinema tickets, I'd buy snacks etc.

So if 3 dates are 3 x drinks - that's approx. £60-£70 depending on amount drank. If on second date you had a meal out - that's another approx. £60 plus. Third date, maybe cinema and drinks - £25 approx.

So you could be looking at £150 approx. for at least the first 3 dates. Add on extras for next two dates - e.g. meal out at Nandos roughly £30 or bowling maybe £30 to include drinks.

So approx. 5 dates approx. just over £200.

Does that make sense?

There's no way I'd be totting up amounts though or thinking that way if I were a man. If I were a woman it doesn't even come into my way of thinking, when a man did pay for the first 2-3 months there was no expectation either way.

ONE MILLION DOLLARS!!

Churchill: "Madam, would you sleep with me for five million pounds?" Socialite: "My goodness, Mr. Churchill... Well, I suppose... we would have to discuss terms, of course... "
Churchill: "Would you sleep with me for five pounds?"
Socialite: "Mr. Churchill, what kind of woman do you think I am?!" Churchill: "Madam, we've already established that. Now we are haggling about the price

Have you left forever OP?

Yes I know it's not at all about the money,
Its not just ‘not all about the money’. It’s not about the money at all. It’s like saying would you be more likely to sleep with someone who turned up to a date wearing blue socks or black socks. It has no bearing on the answer whatsoever.

Oh, I'm classy. He'd have to spend around £150 on dinner, buy me a gift, I'm talking jewellery, so around £800+. Then he'd have to pay for the hotel. And I'm only interested in 5*.

So I guess around £1400?