Affair

[Mrsjones2344]

Name changed.
Is there ever an excuse? My affair is 13 month and going strong

Good for you.

No, it’s a selfish act that fucks up so many peoples lives around them. No one things about the wave of an affair.

*thinks

🙄😒

Well what’s your excuse?

There's always an excuse...that you're a spineless cunt that won't let your partner know that they deserve better.

Glad your affair is strong. Your backbone obviously isn't.

Here we go, what do you want, a medal or absolution?

You should ask yourself if it's that good and going strong then why you posting on here?

Why would you come to MN looking for an excuse?
It works for you and makes sense to you - what do you need from anonymous strangers?

Meeee and mrsjones2344, we got a thinggggg going onnnnn....

Why not just end your other relationship then?!

@Mummyoftwokids because she's a selfish bitch who wants to have her cake and eat it too.

Congratulations....you're a twat!

Mrsjones i’m currently in the receiving end of an affair and it has totally fucked up my life....why are you having an affair ? Is it worth it really ?

You for real?

Maybe change the user name to MrsBait if this is meant to outrage MN posters

Why are you telling us?

Always, always, always an excuse ..... tell us your one.

Yawn

@RoseOfSharyn.....that was exactly what was going through my mind 😂.

Don't feed the troll people.

Excuse is a interesting word.

Anyone could come up with an excuse or a reason for anything.

You are doing it, and enjoying it. Having a valid excuse isn't going to help if it gets found out.

I'm having an affair. I have reasons, but ultimately it's a selfish act.

Interesting you say it’s going strong. What do you mean by that? That your both successful in lying to people you claim to love? I just think it’s the cowards way out. It’s clear your actual relationship should end and instead of facing up to it you live in a fantasy. Totally tragic.

They always make affairs look exciting and glam on TV, in books etc, what they actually do is fuck someone else’s mind for years, cause them to have difficulty ever trusting again etc. I have been both sides of it in different marriages, I am quite ashamed of what I put my first husband through, even though he wasn’t kind to me, I should just have left, with women I think it is generally a sign that things aren’t right as they see it , with men I think it’s more mixed between stuff isn’t right or they just want the buzz of ‘new’ or more sex than they are getting etc

The only redeeming thing in my case is that the guy concerned was single .

But why would anyone want sloppy seconds?

The wife gets everything and ow/om gets a few snatched moments , even after 'hobbies'

Doesn't like a win to me ?

And that's before you start on the emotional damage that will effect the wife / husband and kids.