OH attacked me but I can't leave tonight (pic)

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Threw DS high chair at me then hit me with a remote. I have a job interview tomorrow I've already rearranged it so that's not an option and I need this job.

I have packed up all our things and hid them I can't have him know we are leaving.

Really worried about this cut being visible tomorrow!

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Ive reported this to the police

Really?

Perhaps OP has burnt her bridges with others.

Maybe she's been told to LTB so many times that friends and family have stopped listening.

She may have been convinced by the OH that nobody else cares about her.

He may have told her it's all her fault and she's that broken down that she believed it.

Maybe she feels foolish for having stayed.

Maybe she's absolutely fucking terrified to leave.

There's so many reasons why abused women feel they can't just walk out. It's never as easy as simply packing a bag and leaving. And if this isn't true and it's all a wind up, then quite frankly I'd be relieved that it hasn't happened.

Call the police. They will take him away

Yeah I agree with @Klopptimist

I've been through dv and honestly I wasn't scared till after I left him and realised what I had been put through

There's just no one size fits all to women who experience it. If it's a genuine poster I really hope you find real life support tonight and don't give a shit about MNers

Ive reported this to the police

Blimey, what on earth did you say?

What @Klopptimist said. It's never just as easy as leaving.

I hope you can get out of there OP.

How can you report an incident to the police from a post on an anonymous forum?

Oh you can report it but theres going to be absolutely nothing they can do

Why aren't you messaging women's refuges or the police OP. Too afraid? Why? It's ok on here it seems.
Don't get it.

Hope you are okay op

Just if this is genuine... I kind of think until OP responds if she ever wishes to which if she has sought help likely won't be tonight or tomorrow that perhaps we shouldn't comment anymore.

There's nothing anyone can do and to keep on posting might be triggering her email inbox or showing on her phone... which would be potentially horrific if he finds it

Hopefully you’ve managed to get out by now. But if not please text your mum and ask for help. Not sure how accurate it is but maybe you could share your location with her on the ‘Find friends’ app if you both have iPhones.

I'm really struggling to see why op has been posting on here for hours then asks an anonymous forum to call the police when we have absoloutely no details. Why not text her mum or a friend who are actually able to help??

Op, I do hope you're okay and safe.

I hope you're somewhere safe OP.

I hope you are safe.

I really hope this isn't true :(

Op I really hope you're ok. Don't worry about the interview tomorrow. There will be other interviews once you're all safe.

To OP

Safety is more important than money. Call police. If you don't you may be attacked again.

Good luck.

To the PP who called the police - did she send you her details?

Hope you're ok OP x

Hope you're alright sweetie

Morning everyone I'm ok he ending up leaving early morning.

I'm up now taking DS to nursery sticking to original plan. Going to police after my interview x

People that are doubting this thread it's 100% true this has been my life for way to long now I have posted other threads about him before but it has only recently started getting violent.

When I tried to ring 999 last night he snatched my phone of me and wrestled me on the sofa he broke my last phone because I tried to ring the police so that's why I asked on here.