Been seeing a guy for over a year and we get on well, met each others kids and they've met now too in the last few months. We don't really do a great deal together yet though, just don't want to rush things in that respect.
Although we're both free together one night midweek we don't always do something that night., often because he just wants to relax after work - fair enough. We both also have a second night free that doesn't coincide.
At the weekends we usually do something one evening and thats pretty much it, even though we are both free Sat and Sun night every other weekend. Again, he just wants a quiet night on the Sunday.
If I say anything he says he's entitled to a night in and that we just saw each other the night before, which makes me feel crap. He also says it's childcare that means we can't see each other that much but it's an active choice in my view. Am I expecting too much? What's normal for this stage? I was married for 15 years before, single for 2 before meeting him so I'm sure I'm not just slotting hm in where I left off but this just feels so confusing.