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DH sex drive was woefully low, but now it's through the roof. Wtf is going on?

57 replies

Huskylover1 · 27/12/2018 22:14

No idea what to make of this.

My sex drive has always been a lot higher than his. When we have sex, it is amazing, BUT we often go 3-7 weeks with no sex, which drives me mad. I have told him many times it could be a deal breaker, because he rejects my advances.

He went to GP for a Testosterone check, which came back normal.

He bought Viagra, which sits in the bedside drawer. He downloaded Porn to try to get in the mood and said he felt nothing on watching it (which really worried me).

Anyway, fast forward to last week, and (after 10 years of the above), he suddenly is massively sexed up. It's like he has been abducted by aliens and replaced. Following me around the house, snogging me constantly, groping my boobs, getting massive erections, cannot leave me alone and we've had sex every day this week.

I am massively confused! WTF is going on?

Has anyone experienced this?

OP posts:
EggysMom · 30/12/2018 11:31

Has anything changed? Diet, exercise level, job, alcohol consumption?

ThePollutedShadesOfPemberley · 30/12/2018 11:52

strawberrisc before you take the piss there is a rare form of adrenal cancer that produces male hormone. This is why I suggested it as something that might be worth looking into. You should not dismiss something you clearly know bog all about.

Yulebealrite · 30/12/2018 11:59

It's the Christmas holidays. Could he be more stressed at work than he realised?

bobstersmum · 30/12/2018 12:07

Only on mn would a man showing his wife MORE attention and having more sex be accused of an affair.
Maybe he was depressed before? And now feels better?
Ask him?

BeautifulPossibilities · 30/12/2018 12:46

Are you both off on holiday? More physical contact leads to more bonding, hormones, etc?

Momo18 · 30/12/2018 12:53

Sounds like your describing my DH and he definitely wasn't having an affair. Have you been bantering or flirting more with him? Has he seen someone pay you attention and it's triggered it? Dreams can trigger it too. Diet changes. Exercise. Feeling more confident.

ohnomesandwiches · 30/12/2018 13:00

Could he have been taking anti depressants before and not told you? They can kill your sex drive stone dead. Then it comes back with a vengeance.

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