NC for this. My dh has been texting a lot over the past few days ( since his office party in fact which ended late but I know he came straight home but cant say how I know here) Have checked his phone. There is a msg from him to a work colleague which doesnt say anything but theres no replies. I think he has deleted them. He has never mentioned her name before. I could be wrong but my spidey senses are tingling. He is jealous of a male friend if mine who goes to a club that I go to. We are only friends and thats it point blank. Im not particularly happy in my marriage. My question is how can I check if there are deleted msgs or is there anything I can put on his phone do I can check before hes deleted them? Hes never cheated before ( he would hate anyone to find out ) He doesnt really have the opportunity but he has lied about unrelated things before and so I dont trust him. I just want to be prepared incase this is something that could develop so that I can get my ducks in a row as I have 2 teenagers. He has said that he will leave me a few times but hasnt had the guts to ( I wish he would!- Im not in a position to) but he might if he found someone else as he doesnt like being alone. Any advice welcome. Thanks.