What are your dealbreakers?

[SadVillageGirl]

I always seem to set my bar really low and every time one of my dealbreakers are broken, I stick with the relationship regardless. I always seem to minimise the harm or the effect and then find it hard to end the relationship. What are your minimum standards as I think I need to reset mine!!

Bad tempers
Poor hygiene
Depressed or ill but refuse to take care of it
Unemployed
Gamers
Messy and disorganised
Controlling
Sexist
Hypocrites
Shut ins
Poor social skills
Creepy in general

What are 'shut ins'? @Meangirls36

@bigchris - time again? How old are you if you don't mind me asking?

Addictions
Unkindness
Racism/bigotry/chauvinism
Refusal to take responsibility/own their decisions
Dishonesty of varying types, whether financial or otherwise

I could go on!

RUN...

He's not testing your boundaries hes showing you who he is; a drunk and an emotional abuser.

Closetbean ... sadly I think you're right ...

Any man who doesn't work. I get up and walk off. No need to explain anything.

Lack of work ethic
Champagne lifestyle, beer money wages
Champagne wages, beer money lifestyle
Obsessive interest in porn
Obsessive interest in sport on TV
Right wing Torys/racists/homophobic
No sense of humour
Really Bad alcohol/gambling issues

Sulking
Emotionally immature
Unemployed/no ambition
Addictions - inc gaming/drink/drugs and porn
Unkindness
Homophobic
Racist
Sexist/Misogynist - in any form. My ex used to call some female colleagues 'whores' when moaning about them.
Bad hygiene
Slobby behaviour
Lack of enthusiasm/always allowing the other person to make decisions
Bad tempers/anger issues
Financially irresponsible.

All of the above I have experienced with my ex-partner and ex-husband. Unfortunately I don't hold out much hope of ever meeting someone in the future who doesn't have one of the above traits, therefore, I'm staying single for the foreseeable!