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Girlfriend accused me of lying?

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chuppyson · 16/12/2018 21:31

My girlfriend got funny with me tonight for apparently “lying” to her.

I went out last night to the pub with a few of the guys from my hometown. I told her I wasn’t drinking as I didn’t feel up to it and was driving.

I told her that night how I had had only an had apple juice and didn’t fancy getting drunk. I then decided to have ONE gin and tonic in that same evening the whole night. I had told her I wasn’t drinking which to me having one the whole night isn’t classed as “drinking” I was driving home for goodness sake.

Told her tonight on the phone that I had that ONE G&T and she’s text me tonight saying how it’s bothered her and not to Lie to her. How it’s not being honest and bla bla bla.

Have I made a mistake here or is she being over dramatic and petty?

Thank you.

OP posts:
forumdonkey · 18/12/2018 12:45

I've just read your previous threads. You're not ready for a relationship and neither is she. It's a unhealthy relationship and clearly you spend more time unhappy, anxious, and paranoid about each other than being happy.

WaterBird · 18/12/2018 18:28

@chuppyson
As I mentioned on your last thread, I can empathise with you in some ways because I was in a similar position to you at one point in time.
But I'm sorry to have to say this, I clicked on the link to your first thread and it seems like you haven't taken on the advice given to you, such as deleting WhatsApp.
I hope you are still following your thread because it has been quite awhile since you've posted.
I know that being single might sound overwhelming to you, but you'll have more freedom and don't have to worry about being controlled or overthinking.
Please, for your own sake, take the first step and leave her. If you don't (and I'm saying this in the nicest possible way) she will, and it will probably make your paranoia even worse.

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