Long story short, someone made a fool of me a while ago. The usual, promised me the sun moon and stars. He wasn't happy at home, had no relationship with her and was only there for the kids...or so he said. I ended it all because he 'couldn't' leave her at the time. I can now see lovely pictures on them on her facebook page. And i can also see him active on a dating website. I want to send her an anonymous message on fb just saying " * is cheating on you, just thought you should now". And leave it at that. I admit i'm so bitter about it. Will i, is the question?