I'm not a parent but I thought posting here seemed a good idea as there has been a lot of good advice!
Grew up with my bestfriend in Ireland and moved to the UK for university, we continued to facetime pretty much 5 times a week. I have liked a guy named Craig for a few months now that lives in my uni halls and I have spoken to her many times about this and she has even given me advice on it etc, I invited her and my other friend over to my university halls which we planned to go on a nightout with few of us including Craig.
We didn't get let in as most of us were quite drunk so we got back to the uni halls and most of us went to sleep except for my bestfriend and Craig and they decided to go out together on their own. After about 3-4 hours I woke up and heard my bestfriend in Craig's room so I rang her and she came out and told me they got with each other.
I was obviously upset and crying etc and I kept asking questions about it and for some reason she insisted on telling me she was sober after most questions which I didn't understand because surely that's worse than doing it when drunk? Like why even say she was sober I just don't understand it!? Atleast lie surely????