Am I wrong for thinking he's cheating

[sugersweet]

So I've been with my other half for nearly 2 years, recently he's been spending a lot of time on his phone and taking it with him where ever he goes, we've just come back from a weekend away and he completely ignored me all weekend (we went with a few of his friends) Tuesday morning I woke up and saw he was on snapchat, I made a joke out of and he pointblank lied to my face and said that he doesn't even have snap chat,even though I saw him on it, then we went for lunch yesterday and the whole time he kept checking his phone and turning it over so I couldn't see the screen, he point blank refused to sit next to me yesterday on the way home so I had to sit by myself on a 3 hour coach ride him.. Am I being ridiculous to think he's cheating or even talking to another woman? I just don't know what to do

@sugersweet you said it was his dog, not yours.

If you have concerns the dog is neglected there are avenues you can go down to deal with that. Stealing the dog isn't one of them..

You could land yourself in a lot of trouble if he reports you.

So he seems to think he's sleeping in our bed...behave mate you can sleep in the spare room or the sofa🤦🏻‍♀️ like as if he thought he'd be getting into our bed 😂😂🤦🏻‍♀️

Damn straight it’s the spare room. Cheeky bugger.

Literally couldn't care where he sleeps as long as it's not our bed...absolute cringe of him 😂

You can’t even sit next to me on a bus but think you should sleep next to me in the same bed? Jog on.

What's the plan for your next step @sugersweet - did you get plane tickets sorted?

Cheeky bastard, expecting to sleep in your bed.

@GreenFingersWouldBeHandy , his mum said I can stay with her while I get everything sorted, I'm absolutely heartbroken, that he's been cheating on me with someone much other than me 😭 I moved over 600 miles to be with him and This is how he treats me, I've a plane ticket booked for the 14th of December 😭x

Oh bless. 14 Dec is a long time away. Really hope you are OK in the meantime. What a shitbag. Keep cuddling your dog. (YOUR dog, not his.)

At least you don't have to stay with him. Keep on keeping on.

What an absolute shit he his.
Very glad his mum offered.
I'd accept that.
3 weeks living with him will be torture.
Is there any reason HE can't go to his mums for a few weeks and leave you in the house to sort everything out. Pack, etc...???

@hellsbellsmelons his mum doesn't want him in the house with her 😂😂😂 and he told me I can take the dog, he's writing it in a concert and signing it to say he's mine now 🙈just gunna be the most horrific few weeks for me and my daughter, I was really hoping he was planning a surprise or something nice for Christmas, turns out he was but just not for me 😒x

So he's admitted to cheating then? Damn, that is awful.

He hasn't admitted it as such, but I've seen messages and everything they've been talking about, slagging me off left right and centre, they also planned to meet while we were away together, she was staying in the same hotel as we were absolutely raging x

Ah fuck, that's horrible. I think you've got the right attitude with this fighting spirit of yours though, good on you! He'll be eating your dust in no time.

I can't get over the fact that she was in the same hotel as us 😭kinda makes sense now as to why he kept asking me if I was tired and wanted to go to bed 🙃 he was probably so raging he didn't get the chance to see her which is why he didn't want to sit next to me on the way home 🙄🙄

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OMG that's AWFUL!!!! What was he planning to do, shag her then slip into bed with you? Beyond despicable.

@GreenFingersWouldBeHandy
He must have done, he's mum is absolutely fuming with him 😬 I honestly don't know what todo with myself I feel so out of place and awkward with staying at his mums 😬 God I nee to get out of here asap

Can you move your flights forward?
Could you travel by coach / train instead?
I'm assuming you are travelling within the UK?

@hellsbellsmelons
I've tried to move it forward but I just can't as i need to ship all my stuff home and find somewhere to put it all😭

Aw so sorry op hope the next few weeks fly by for u !

How did u see the messages ?

@Babymammy

I couldn't sleep so I went and took his phone and looked through absolutely everything, he's a really heavy sleeper so he didn't even flinch when I took it, it took all my strength not to throw it at the wall, took my daughter to school this morning and left the house 😫

Oh my, ur stomach must of sank ! Your being really strong u and ur dd deserve so much better ! Wish he'd just admit it tho, more satisfying that way i find

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Oh wow what an arsehole! Get your stuff and go back to your family, he is disgusting! Glad his mum is being supportive! All the best!

He's an absolute arsehole. You're well rid