Am I wrong for thinking he's cheating

[sugersweet]

So I've been with my other half for nearly 2 years, recently he's been spending a lot of time on his phone and taking it with him where ever he goes, we've just come back from a weekend away and he completely ignored me all weekend (we went with a few of his friends) Tuesday morning I woke up and saw he was on snapchat, I made a joke out of and he pointblank lied to my face and said that he doesn't even have snap chat,even though I saw him on it, then we went for lunch yesterday and the whole time he kept checking his phone and turning it over so I couldn't see the screen, he point blank refused to sit next to me yesterday on the way home so I had to sit by myself on a 3 hour coach ride him.. Am I being ridiculous to think he's cheating or even talking to another woman? I just don't know what to do

You deserve better than being treated like this.

Who's Imma?

Why don't you download snapchat then try and add him by his phone number so you have proof that he has an account

So he's home...I asked him he told me I was actually stupid and being an idiot..I looked on his phone and he's deleted the app🙃 looked at his history and a lot of things seem to have been deleted as well his messages have also been deleted... so imma leave him 🤷🏻‍♀️💃🏻💃🏻

This bitch Is out of here👏🏼

imma----I am

I asked him he told me I was actually stupid and being an idiot

So he hasn't even got the guts to admit it? What a loser. Yes, leave the bastard. You deserve so much better.

I wish people wouldn't say "he might have something planned" when it's a situation like this. There is nothing about this that suggests this guy is planning something nice for the OP.

Whether or not he's having an affair (and I think everything suggests he is) then he is treating you really badly anyway. You're better off without him.

Being secretive with phone. Deleting things. Denying and turning it on you. Cheaters bingo.

Well done @sugersweet you sound like you know your worth!

Looks like I'm gunna take back his Christmas stuff 😂💃🏻

Get a refund and buy yourself something nice instead.

Good for you OP, be with someone who thinks you're amazing, not someone who thinks you're stupid enough to fall for that bull!

I vote you treat something nive with the money from returned xmas gifts...Bye filipe`!! 👋

Looks like the only surprise I was getting was being single and alone 😂😂 boy bye 💃🏻 I've no time to be messing around with s man child 😂

Yep, he really does think you are thick and will fall for his crap.
I'm glad you are leaving him.
Although he's been good, cheating is a deal-breaker for you (as it should be)
And then to assume you are an idiot as well just shows his true lack of respect for you at this time.

Well done, you can tell a lot from the history and the BATTERY.
So if you get a chance then check there as well.
Good luck OP.
I have a feeling he will talk you round but do what is best for you and your DC.

Hellsbellsmelons

He's absolutely no chance of talking me around, I'm looking at flights home for as soon as possible, I'm taking his damn dog too 😂💃🏻💃🏻

I’m sorry this happened but good for you not falling for the lies. Onwards and upwards!

Wasted nearly 2 years of my life on this prick 🙃 not wasting anymore 😒 there is no way I'm staying here anymore so imma get the soonest flight home 😂

He can think again if he thinks he's keeping his dog too😂 i wall him feed him play with him so he's coming with me

Are you in the UK?
It's not easy to export a dog out of this country.
Or cheap!!!

His "damn dog" is a living creature, not a tool to try and hurt your ex..

It would be very selfish, petty (and also illegal) to steal him/her as revenge.

I’m really sorry. I was going to chime in about this but it seems to have all come out. When I’ve been involved with a girl I’m typically glued to my phone. Complete with Cheshire Cat grins and chuckles. No idea how far he actually went but there’s zero doubt he has been having conversations with a girl and explicit ones at that. Especially with messages and apps being deleted.

I think the only shocking thing about this has been just how brazen he’s been. And how cruel he’s been to you. Still I hope things work out for you. Very sad situation.

Well it's our dog, just in his name he does nothing for him, I feed him walk him bath him care for him he does nothing for him and i paid for the actual dog himself so technically he's my dog😒

Good for you op , as long as you are allowed to fly the dog home. The
Coach rude and ignoring me all weekend would do it for me.

He doesn't look after the dog at all, the dog is everything to me, I know he wouldn't be looked after properly if I left him behind, my boy Is coming home with me and my daughter where I know he'd be happy and well looked after, so sorry if you think I'm being petty and spiteful but I'm not

@Dwayna would you leave your dog with someone who doesn't look after him/her properly 🤔🤔

It's the battery usage you need to look at. That'll tell you what he spends most time on. Even deleted apps will show up on there if he's been on them.