LONG POST
Me and my Partner have been together 7 years. 2 children, house, dog blah blah blah.
I've had a friend for 13 years and I thought I could trust her. Turns out I was wrong. I've never checked my partners phone. Never felt the need too. I've had pushed down my throat since day 1 he'd never be able to message another woman or sleep with another woman even if he was held at gunpoint.
Something today inside me changed. I checked his phone. And I found disgusting messages on there. Ones that made my stomach churn. Between my partner and my so called best friend. He's told her he could make her orgasm. She's told him she's going home to masturbate and how she'd love to come and wash his "bits"(not actual word used but you get the idea!!) in the bath. He's told her what sex he likes and she's sent him a pic of her in her pjs with her bra on.
What the f*ck am I meant to do? I work full time to provide the money for the house and bills so he could pursue his dream of running his own business. His mum told him to stay at home and he a single dad! So I'm meant to leave my home and my children when I've done nothing wrong!
With someone who had nothing to hide, he deleted the whatssap thread! I've tried to restore it but he's cleverly deleted her contact and everything in his phone!
My question is, what would you do? Would you work it out? Would you stay? Split? I just don't know. I feel sick.
To make matters worse, Friday night i fell and dislocated my knee. I was on the floor for 7 hours
Waiting for an ambulance and all the while; they're in the same room texting saying he was going to leave me there and go with her.
His excuse? He was talking to her trying to save our relationship. Please tell me I'm not being stupid when I say I want to kick him out? He's fast asleep upstairs and I'm sat downstairs crying my eyes out.