Got back with my first husband after 28yrs

[Moorsue]

We were in the army together in Germany both 20yrs old got pregnant married all in 1yr split up never heard from him again hasn't seen his son since the day we split he found me on face book 28yrs later,we both left our long term partners for each other our son who hasn't seen his dad has his mum and dad back together,you can never make up the time lost,you have to treat it like a new relationship or it won't last you can't live in the passed,two years now we have been living back together,both different people from before I was very surprised at this it's been hard but we both love each other very much

Nice your son will thrilled his dad who abandoned him is interested again now he’s sleeping with his mother again .

Pull my other leg it’s got bells. 🔔

Oddest thing I've read on here for some time, and that's saying something.

If this is true then Darren is a piece of shit of the highest order, and you're not much better.

Life does indeed throw curved balls OP. It’s called the game of rugby.

In fact when you think of it, all balls are curved: footballs, tennis balls, snooker balls, polo balls, billiard balls, gentlemens’ testicles, cricket balls, volley balls. It really is an amazing planet (which incidentally is also curved). Life is just awesome.

Cool story bro,

I've never realised their where so many spiteful people out their ,sad really

It's not about spite. You are there in a bubble thinking your story proves love conquers all. When it's actually quite sad that you could even stand him touching you after her abandoned your son.

It's not a nice story.

Also the fact that you wanted to share it, shows that you are blind to the truth of it and are quite smug behind your rose tinted glasses.

Being smug because you have something good, isnt a great trait. Being smug because you have something shit but can't see it's shit, makes you deluded and it makes people pity you.

If you're happy to be with a man who abandoned his own child, and your son is happy with finally getting to know said absent parent too, then great.

Wow... he never bothered with your son for 28 years. He is a waste of space.

Bullshit!

I would rather choke to death on dog shit than so much as hold his hand.

Brilliant

This makes me fear for the intelligence levels in the army; you know, the ones with access to guns and shit.

OP it's very unclear what the point of this thread is. What comments did you expect?

Is this Eastenders? I haven't watched it since 1986 so I could be wrong!

This makes me fear for the intelligence levels in the army; you know, the ones with access to guns and shit

😂

Ah right, I get it now.

I expect it was the T-rexing in Asda which was the last straw. Especially after all that wine up the curtains.

I agree. I’m hoping it’s a creative writing exercise.

I'm kind of hoping it isn't...! or is this the quality of prose accepted in Take A Break these days?

Is this Mills and Boon? How do you like this man who did nothing for you all the time you raised his son?

This is a truly epic level of bonk-osity.

Have I invented a new word?

bonk-osity.

Yes you have. 😎

Sue. Are you posting this as a love story that 'turned out all right in the end' or have you got problems with the relationship? I think that's why people are asking, they're not sure which it is. If you can clarify, people will hopefully comment on the answer.