Caught my boyfriend searching escorts!

[Clo90]

Please help. Last year I looked on my boyfriends search history and on and off over 8months he had looked up escorts a lot! He denied it was him and said it was his friends then eventually he admitted to looking once.. he said it was on the google search bar history (from where 'his friend searched it') so he decided to have a nose.
Shortly after that i found out i was pregnant. We had been trying for a baby for about 4months. Since then ive never fully trusted him. Our son is now 6months old and i still think about all the escorts on his search history. He never lets me on his laptop and i have no way of signing onto it. So makes me think he is searching them. I just want the truth from him so badly! :(

Looking once is concerning. Repeatedly looking over a period of time, restricting access to laptop (and I assume phone) is something more. It's a massive red flag.

OP, did something change in his behaviour around the time he started looking that's persisted? Can you highlight blocks of time he passes off as "nothing" or "meeting a mate"? Things changed since the birth?

There are lots of sites he could use for his "wank bank" (that phrase always makes me laugh), that show far more. Clearly searching escorts is something else.

Oh, caught up now. Another phone? With messages? He's telling you what he's doing through a megaphone.

He has a business with his friend and works really odd hours. Since having our son I did find a return train ticket from Cardiff in his wallet and he denied it was his and said it must've been his friends... always using his friends as back up. Again I said his friend must have his own wallet for sure. Plus his friend lives in Cardiff so he would need a return back to Cardiff not from. But as usual he just denied it was his.

I've also noticed there's been days he said he's going to work and then I've been out for the day and I come home and turns out he's been home all day.. So there's been strange behaviour since having our son

If he's been with escorts since I found out I was pregnant and since around the time I found them all on his search history and on his other phone then I have to leave him. If me finding out and realising we were going to have a family made him stop I want to be with him still and find a way to move forward.. Maybe couples counselling (don't know if he would do that though).
The smear test I had has just brought it all up so much in my mind and his strange behaviour and not letting me have access to his laptop etc too

In my experience men who use escorts do not all of a sudden find that they have morals just because their wife is having a baby/starting a family.

What I'm saying is that people like that are unlikely to change their behaviour for anyone (although there are exceptions of course).

Just leave him...it shouldn't matter if he's done it again, he's got no morals and doesn't respect you. Have some self respect.

Wake up!